Your Loving Mother brings warmth and nurturance to encourage you on your way. Your Loving Mother archetype draws out the best in you and helps you to succeed. She teaches, guides, explains and gives you unconditional love. She provides the intimacy that exists between a mother and her child and she helps you to be intimate with others. In every situation, she provides the healing unguent of wisdom and unconditional love that soothes all distress.
The presence of Unloving Mother within you is the extreme opposite. With Unloving Mother, you experience an abandoning and aloof energy towards yourself and towards others. You may also compensate with a self-indulgent and indulging spoiling mechanism (smother-mother.) When this happens, you encourage yourself and the people around you to pursue the "mommy" things of life inordinately—like food, sex, drugs, money and shopping—to fill the inner void that comes from the lack of true Loving Mother nurturance within.

Loving Mother

I lam warm and personal in what I deliver and receive.

I help the children understand how to meet the standards and reach the goals of Father.

I hold the concept of the beast that each of the family members can be
and reflect it back to them when they need to remember.

I nurture the members of the family according to their needs.

I teach and guide the children to take care of themselves
so they will grow into responsible members of the family that Father has set the blueprint for.

I help the children understand their pain so they wil not have to repress,
suppress or deny it, but can integrate the experience.

I truly listen to each of the family members.

Unloving Mother

I withhold warmth and care because I want it for myself.

I use guilt to get others to supply my needs.

I'm aloof to the needs of Father or child.

I indulge Boychild so he gets addicted or dependent on me.

I help Girlchild feel sorry for herself so she is dependent on my sympathy.

I'm not present for Boychild or Girlchild, especially when they really want me.

I do not listen to them.

I only hear what I want to hear.

Tools to Engage Your Loving Mother

Are you warm and personal?

Are you nurturing and caring?

Do you encourage and support yourself and others?

Do you give counsel to others when they need it?

Can you love people no matter what mistakes they make?

Are you available when your are needed?

Do you recognize gifts and talents, be they yours or others?

Do you help yourself and others deal with pain?

Do you respect independence for yourself and your loved ones?

Do you nurture those who are ailing?




	Your Loving Mother brings warmth and nurturance to encourage you on your way. Your Loving Mother archetype draws out the best in you and helps you to succeed. She teaches, guides, explains and gives you unconditional love. She provides the intimacy that exists between a mother and her child and she helps you to be intimate with others. In every situation, she provides the healing unguent of wisdom and unconditional love that soothes all distress. The presence of Unloving Mother within you is the extreme opposite. With Unloving Mother, you experience an abandoning and aloof energy towards yourself and towards others. You may also compensate with a self-indulgent and indulging spoiling mechanism (smother-mother.) When this happens, you encourage yourself and the people around you to pursue the "mommy" things of life inordinately—like food, sex, drugs, money and shopping—to fill the inner void that comes from the lack of true Loving Mother nurturance within. Loving Mother I lam warm and personal in what I deliver and receive. I help the children understand how to meet the standards and reach the goals of Father. I hold the concept of the beast that each of the family members can be and reflect it back to them when they need to remember. I nurture the members of the family according to their needs. I teach and guide the children to take care of themselves so they will grow into responsible members of the family that Father has set the blueprint for. I help the children understand their pain so they wil not have to repress, suppress or deny it, but can integrate the experience. I truly listen to each of the family members. Unloving Mother I withhold warmth and care because I want it for myself. I use guilt to get others to supply my needs. I'm aloof to the needs of Father or child. I indulge Boychild so he gets addicted or dependent on me. I help Girlchild feel sorry for herself so she is dependent on my sympathy. I'm not present for Boychild or Girlchild, especially when they really want me. I do not listen to them. I only hear what I want to hear. Tools to Engage Your Loving Mother Are you warm and personal? Are you nurturing and caring? Do you encourage and support yourself and others? Do you give counsel to others when they need it? Can you love people no matter what mistakes they make? Are you available when your are needed? Do you recognize gifts and talents, be they yours or others? Do you help yourself and others deal with pain? Do you respect independence for yourself and your loved ones? Do you nurture those who are ailing?