The Inspirers/Girl-Mother Pattern
(Conscious Girlchild, Subconscious Mother)

People who function from a conscious Girlchild and subconscious Mother pattern live to inspire others. They supercharge unconditional love with Girlchild care and finesse. Conscious Girlchild spends her time thinking about how she can help people, and subconscious Mother provides her with the “who, what, where, when and why” to do so.

Girl-Mothers know how to give others the nurturing, teaching, guiding and unconditional love they want without expecting anything in return. People generally feel safe and relaxed in their presence, which gives them a lot of power and control. They often serve in lines of work like nursing or counseling. They also gravitate to the world of dance where many are ballerinas, living for a beauty that transcends the beauty they have seen.

Girl-Mothers can appear childlike. When they are not under pressure, they often speak in a musical and high-pitched tone. At the same time, they have a lot of emotional maturity. All of a sudden, at the drop of a hat, they may say something extremely wise and mature that catches us off guard. They can also endure through the most difficult circumstances.

Girl-Mothers are healers. They have an incredible ability to bring forth deep resources within themselves, to mother life, to contact divinity and to pull down extraordinary creativity. Girl-Mothers like to know how the body works and often get involved in other people’s health. They are drawn to natural health regimens. Others sometimes think they go overboard and label them as “health freaks,” but they are just trying to be fastidious and earnest about taking good care of their bodies and want to convince everyone around them to do the same.

No matter what their field of work, Girl-Mothers show tremendous creativity. Sometimes, their gifts are hard to measure, because they are subtle and non-linear. They may appear to be empirical, but their knowledge comes from their intuition.

Girl-Mothers also have psychic abilities. They read people as a natural defense mechanism, checking for any malintent. Even so, they sometimes still lack discernment and let others take advantage of their generosity. Then, when they feel mistreated, they become aloof and are unable to resolve the situation. The juxtaposition of these two energies is hard for others to deal with—basking in a beautiful pink ovoid of unconditional love one moment and being abandoned the next.

When Girl-Mothers hold an inflated opinion about themselves, they will seek to tie themselves to people who will confirm that opinion and prop them up. Then, their motive for caring becomes selfish—to generate idolatry from others through seeming altruism. They must guard against facilitating the worst in others in order to receive approval, and they must also guard against doing good deeds only to boost their self-image.

Girl-Mothers need to be cautious not to become drawn to people who would abuse of their willingness to serve. As long as Girl-Mothers exercise discrimination in their relationships, they can bring great healing and inspiration to others and draw out the best in them.

~Girl-Mothers love to inspire and heal others.

~They can appear childlike and think in non-linear ways.

~They live for beauty and have tremendous creativity.

~They use their psychic abilities as a defense mechanism.

~When injured, they may succumb to an aloof pattern of denial.

~This combination is especially challenging for men.

The Girl-Mother pattern is described in greater detail in the books, The Inner Family Archetypes: Building Loving Relationships Through Divine Self-Awareness and Why We Do What We Do.




	The Inspirers/Girl-Mother Pattern (Conscious Girlchild, Subconscious Mother) People who function from a conscious Girlchild and subconscious Mother pattern live to inspire others. They supercharge unconditional love with Girlchild care and finesse. Conscious Girlchild spends her time thinking about how she can help people, and subconscious Mother provides her with the “who, what, where, when and why” to do so. Girl-Mothers know how to give others the nurturing, teaching, guiding and unconditional love they want without expecting anything in return. People generally feel safe and relaxed in their presence, which gives them a lot of power and control. They often serve in lines of work like nursing or counseling. They also gravitate to the world of dance where many are ballerinas, living for a beauty that transcends the beauty they have seen. Girl-Mothers can appear childlike. When they are not under pressure, they often speak in a musical and high-pitched tone. At the same time, they have a lot of emotional maturity. All of a sudden, at the drop of a hat, they may say something extremely wise and mature that catches us off guard. They can also endure through the most difficult circumstances. Girl-Mothers are healers. They have an incredible ability to bring forth deep resources within themselves, to mother life, to contact divinity and to pull down extraordinary creativity. Girl-Mothers like to know how the body works and often get involved in other people’s health. They are drawn to natural health regimens. Others sometimes think they go overboard and label them as “health freaks,” but they are just trying to be fastidious and earnest about taking good care of their bodies and want to convince everyone around them to do the same. No matter what their field of work, Girl-Mothers show tremendous creativity. Sometimes, their gifts are hard to measure, because they are subtle and non-linear. They may appear to be empirical, but their knowledge comes from their intuition. Girl-Mothers also have psychic abilities. They read people as a natural defense mechanism, checking for any malintent. Even so, they sometimes still lack discernment and let others take advantage of their generosity. Then, when they feel mistreated, they become aloof and are unable to resolve the situation. The juxtaposition of these two energies is hard for others to deal with—basking in a beautiful pink ovoid of unconditional love one moment and being abandoned the next. When Girl-Mothers hold an inflated opinion about themselves, they will seek to tie themselves to people who will confirm that opinion and prop them up. Then, their motive for caring becomes selfish—to generate idolatry from others through seeming altruism. They must guard against facilitating the worst in others in order to receive approval, and they must also guard against doing good deeds only to boost their self-image. Girl-Mothers need to be cautious not to become drawn to people who would abuse of their willingness to serve. As long as Girl-Mothers exercise discrimination in their relationships, they can bring great healing and inspiration to others and draw out the best in them. ~Girl-Mothers love to inspire and heal others. ~They can appear childlike and think in non-linear ways. ~They live for beauty and have tremendous creativity. ~They use their psychic abilities as a defense mechanism. ~When injured, they may succumb to an aloof pattern of denial. ~This combination is especially challenging for men. The Girl-Mother pattern is described in greater detail in the books, The Inner Family Archetypes: Building Loving Relationships Through Divine Self-Awareness and Why We Do What We Do.