Your Loved Girlchild brings finesse, inspiration magic and resolution into your life. She touches you deeply and makes life special. She is extraordinarily complex, multidimensional, ineffable and mysterious. She can understood through the concepts of beauty, sweetness, forgiveness, gentleness, innocence, goodwill, holiness, sensitivity, diplomacy, intuition, compassion and harmlessness. The Loved Girlchild is your muse, the source of your creative power. She allows you to engage sensitively in life, to hear with your inner voice and to connect with the essence of things.

Unloved Girlchild, on the other hand, is the wounded victim who cannot get over her real or perceived injury and is paralyzed by fear. She drowns in self-pity, discouragement and resentment. Manipulative, she seduces others into rescuing her, like a melodramatic soap opera queen.


Loved Girlchild


I love to be protected by Father.

I love to be honored and cherished by Father.

I love to be embraced and nourished by Mother.

I love to admire Boychild’s courage and let him know.

I love to be creative, to draw, to paint.

I love beautiful things and to experience and reflect their beauty.

I love to share the deeper mysteries of life with others.

I love to be in relationship with people, elemental life and angels.


Unloved Girlchild



Father puts me down all the time.

He shames and humiliates me.

He sees me as worthless.

Mother doesn’t see me except when she wants me to do something for her.

She makes me feel like I’m bad if I don’t do it.

Boychild takes my things.

He beats me up.

Nobody loves me.

Everybody takes advantage of me.

I’m petrified with fear.

I talk about people behind their backs.

I’m nothing, I’m worthless, I don’t deserve to live.

Tools to Engage Your Loved Girlchild



Are you very sensitive?

Do you care for people and avoid hurting anyone?

Do you try to comfort anyone or anything in pain?

Do you like to finish things with finesse?

Do you get so engaged in something that you forget the time?

Do you believe in things you do not see?

Do you just know or intuit things?

Do you feel a strong sense of self-worth?